Last week, I had the pleasure of speaking to more than 100 wonderful members of the Ryde-Eastwood Seniors Club about a topic that most people don’t talk about until they have to: funerals and more specifically, prepaid funerals.
But I believe we can look at life and farewell with lightness, grace, and heart.
I’m Matt Morgan, Funeral Director and Celebrant at Idyllic Funerals. Before this, I worked in finance, but after losing a close friend, I realised I wanted to help families navigate one of life’s most profound transitions with care, clarity, and compassion.
The session was filled with curiosity, laughter, and heartfelt questions. The topic that drew the most interest was prepaid funerals and how planning ahead can ease so much pressure for loved ones.
More Than Just a Funeral Director
My role is about much more than logistics or paperwork. It’s about people. Every family I meet is going through one of the hardest moments of their life, and my purpose is to bring calm, kindness, and guidance to that space.
Together, we craft ceremonies that truly reflect the person being remembered, their stories, values, quirks, and essence. It’s an honour to help families celebrate life in a way that feels genuine.
A Shift Toward Celebration
Funerals today are changing. Families are replacing hymns with favourite songs, swapping black attire for bright colours, and sharing stories that make everyone smile through the tears.
This shift is beautiful. It reminds us that funerals are not only about endings but about connection, storytelling, and love.
The Power of Personalisation
No two lives are the same, so no two farewells should be either. A surfboard, a guitar, or a treasured book can speak volumes about who someone was. These small details transform a service from something generic into something truly meaningful.
Personalisation helps families heal, giving space for both laughter and tears.
Understanding the Process
Many people at the presentation told me they simply didn’t know what happens when someone dies. That uncertainty can add to the stress during an already emotional time.
By understanding what to expect, from medical certification to planning the ceremony, families can make calm, informed choices.
Knowledge really is power.
Leaving a Gentle Footprint
We also spoke about eco-friendly funerals. More families are choosing sustainable options like cardboard, wicker, or bamboo coffins, natural burials, and carbon offset programs. These choices honour both the person and the planet.
The Gift of Planning Ahead
Prepaid funerals give families peace of mind. They remove financial and emotional pressure, and they ensure your wishes are honoured, from music and readings to tone and budget.
It’s one of the kindest gifts you can leave behind. Planning ahead allows you to have a say in how you’ll be remembered, and it gives your family time to focus on what really matters: love, memories, and connection.
If you’d like to explore your options, I offer a free 15-minute planning chat. It’s not a sales pitch, just an open conversation to help you feel informed and at ease.
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Growing Around Grief
Grief doesn’t shrink over time. We grow around it. Funerals give us space to express, to connect, and to begin that growth.
When we gather, share stories, and remember together, we help each other heal. That’s the true meaning of community.
Continuing the Conversation
I’m grateful to everyone who came to the Ryde-Eastwood Seniors talk. Your openness, curiosity, and willingness to engage made it a beautiful experience.
If you’d like me to speak at your seniors group or community organisation, please reach out. I’d love to continue sharing these conversations — the ones that bring peace, understanding, and light to a topic that touches us all.
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🔗 Helpful resource: Planning Ahead Tools NSW
