As the year draws to a close, I’ve found myself spending some quiet time reflecting. December isn’t particularly busy with funerals. Instead, it offers a natural pause. A chance to slow down, look back, and take stock of the year that’s been.
And what a year it has been.
Starting the Year on One Foot (literally!)
January didn’t quite start as planned. A freak accident left me with a broken ankle, and suddenly everything slowed down. For someone who thrives on movement, routine, and training, that was confronting.
But it also became a reminder of patience and perspective. Twelve weeks later, I was back on the mats at jiu jitsu. That return wasn’t just physical, it was mental and emotional! Jiu jitsu continues to be my second home. It grounds me, challenges me, and keeps me honest.
I still train regularly, three to five times a week when I can. I made a promise to my friend who passed away that I’d earn my black belt, and I carry that promise with me every time I step onto the mat. I’m still on the journey, and that’s exactly where I’m meant to be.
Reflections on Learning the Hard Way
This year also came with lessons I didn’t expect, including discovering just how complex Google Ads can be. I’m not sure anyone prepares you for the emotional rollercoaster of dashboards, conversions, and endless acronyms.
It tested my patience, and at times, my sanity. But we stuck with it, learned what we needed to learn, and worked through it – and eventually outsourced to someone who knows what they’re doing! Like most things this year, it reminded me that perseverance usually leads somewhere worthwhile.
Reflections on Families and Farewells
Without question, the most meaningful part of this year has been the families I’ve had the privilege of supporting.
Each farewell is different. Each story unique. And every time, I’m reminded just how much of an honour this work is. Helping families say goodbye to someone they love, holding space for grief, laughter, memories, and meaning, is something I never take lightly.
This year, I discovered just how much I love gathering stories and writing ceremonies. There’s something truly magical about listening deeply and then reflecting a person’s life back to the people who loved them most. It doesn’t feel like work. It feels like purpose.
Reflections on Community and Conversation
This year also gave me opportunities to step into the community in new ways. I participated in Dying to Know Day, an event dedicated to encouraging open conversations about death, dying, and planning ahead.
I also had the privilege of presenting to a seniors club, speaking about funeral planning and what it really looks like today. Those conversations reinforced something I feel strongly about: knowledge brings peace. When people understand their options, fear often softens.
Reflections on Simplicity and Being Present
Outside of work, life continues in all the quiet, beautiful ways it always has. Family time, school routines, shared meals. Training sessions squeezed in at every opportunity.
Somehow, even in the busiest periods, I’ve managed to keep showing up on the mat, at home, and for the families who place their trust in me. That balance isn’t perfect, but it’s intentional.
Reflections on Gratitude
As I look back, I feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude.
Grateful for my family, my health and for the people who’ve trusted me during some of their hardest days. And grateful that I’ve found a path that feels aligned and meaningful.
This work continues to shape me in ways I never expected. It challenges me, humbles me, and fills me with purpose. I love every minute of it.
Looking Ahead
As we move toward a new year, I’m carrying these reflections with me. The lessons. The gratitude. The quiet confidence that comes from knowing I’m exactly where I’m meant to be.
Thank you to everyone who has been part of this journey in 2025.
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